Why do I value this? I value it because I know what it is like to give someone your all, and their all is full of lies. For instance, in my last relationship, he lied so much that I had to get the password for the phone, myspace, facebook, blackplanet, college email, all that! I always told him that I would know he was lying, but he would swear on his mom and grandmother's grave (who are not dead, mind you) and when he was caught out there, he would turn it around on me in some form or fashion and all of a sudden I was the culprit, aint that some ish? After three years of lies, abuse, and bullish, I was all set. The first guy that I was engaged told me once that he has six months to live. I started balling my eyes out. I loved this man! I couldn't fathom him dying. Being in an honest relationship certainly keeps other from getting in the way. If you know your man to be a liar, any girl can come up to you and say she is sleeping with him....even if she isn't. Women are a force to be reckoned with when they want your man. Just a year and a half ago, this girl was so trying to get my fiance that she tried to run me over with her car after he AND myself told her what the deal was for real.
If honesty was not an option, I would choose time. I value the time spent with him so much. After losing those close to you, you learn to appreciate the time spent with others more. Whether it's to share a laugh, cry, curse, whatever.
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